Let's pretend it's not the end of the world
I still want to tell you everything. Does that surprise you? All the little nonsense things of the day. There have been so many days, you know.
The weather cooled off magnificently because I caved and got a bus pass, knowing how much more of a person I am in the summer when I don’t have to deal with the heat as much. So now it’s in the 70’s and all the windows are open and the cats are perching in the sills, staring avidly at the birds.
The books are piling up haphazardly at work because we’re still backed up. We’ve started sorting things by branch, which makes it feel more purposeful at least, even if it does nothing in the long run. I’m on the last day of an eight day work stretch and while, yes, that is terrible, it is so much better here than when I had that sort of thing in the suburbs.
How even the straightest looking dudes seem nicer when they’re wearing allyish shirts during June. All are welcome here. Such a simple sentence, and yet.
Jenny comes over and bumps her head against me, my arm, my leg, etc, to tell me it is Now Time for skritches. How she likes, even though she wouldn’t admit it under torture, being seized and given butt skritches and neck ones at the same time. How she comes over and settles down near Stretch and I, clearly Joining In. You would be so proud of her, our little void.
Lestat is back and this season is magnificent. There was a quote in this Roman romance novel I was reading (and I will finish, even though the introduction of Christianity bummed me out) about how living for lust was as good a reason as any. I don’t think I will ever fall in love, but I am capable of great lust, and hopefully through that, great art one day. I want the Lestat album on vinyl.
How much I desperately longed to go to the Lestat concert in New York, even though after submitting my name for the ticket request, I had a full blown wave of anxiety, trying to think about how I would even manage getting there if I DID get a ticket, and what I would wear. How discontent I am with my body right now and how I would want to look so much better before I got anywhere near Sam Reid. Vain, yes, I know, but I can’t help it. I’m nearing forty, you know and I want my body to be better for the future even if this is all the future there is. And even though the anxiety was deeply unpleasant, it was almost reassuring to realize I cared that much about the concert.
Of course, making myself exercise consistently is still hard. I do have my treadmill set up in my nook though now, and I bought lube (haha) for it over the weekend because I’ve now used it enough that it needs that. That’s something at least.
How all the themes repeat in my head, and eventually I will run out of them.
How am I approaching forty and you’re not here….
And the books of course.
Netgalley – I’m currently reading He Always Comes Back by Elle Engel- which isn’t out till January 2027.
Physical books – I checked in three books this morning that looked good, Maine – J. Courtney Sullivan, The Queen’s Governess – Karen Harper, and The Last Room on the Left – Leah Konen, which I’ve been meaning to read forever. They are all now safely stored in my drawer at work… Tune in next time to see if I’ve actually read any of them.